Samantha Sipila is a junior at Michigan State University from Sylvan Lake, Michigan. She is majoring in public relations with a minor in business and entrepreneurship and innovation. She expects to graduate in May 2026 and hopes to work at a public relations firm in Chicago, focusing on brand strategy.
I struggled a lot during my first year at Michigan State University, and I know I’m not alone. Being thrust into a new environment, far from home and suddenly responsible for your own life, is a major transition. If I could do it over, I’d approach things differently. Here are the five pieces of advice I wish I had known as a freshman.
1. Start conversations — you never know who you’ll meet
Meeting new people is one of the most important parts of the college experience, but it can be intimidating. I didn’t go out of my way to meet others because I was scared — of what, I’m still not sure. That fear delayed my ability to find the friends who would become my people.
Talk to anyone and everyone about anything and everything. What’s the worst that could happen? You might meet your new best friend. Don’t let nerves stop you from forming connections. Most people are eager to talk — use that to your advantage and spread kindness along the way.
2. Take the leap — do it even if it scares you
This especially applies to study abroad. I nearly skipped the opportunity because I was afraid to try something new with people I didn’t know. But I ended up making one of my closest friends during that trip.
Fear of failure is real, but so is the growth that comes from pushing through it. Instead of imagining the worst-case scenario, ask yourself, “What’s the best thing that could happen?” Reframing fear as opportunity is key. Do the thing that scares you. The reward is worth it.
3. Prioritize yourself and do what makes you happy
Put yourself first — always. You’re the only one who can make you happy. You can’t control what others think or do, so don’t live according to their expectations.
If that outfit boosts your confidence, wear it. If a sweet treat brightens your day, enjoy it. If someone in your life isn’t adding value, it’s OK to move on. Life’s too short to live for anyone but yourself.
4. Build your network — professional connections matter
You’ve probably heard it a thousand times, but it’s true: Networking matters. You never know who will help you land your next opportunity. Reach out to professionals in your field, ask about their career path, and seek their advice. People love to share their experiences — especially MSU alumni. Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself.
5. Take advantage of MSU’s tools and resources
MSU offers a wide range of student resources — many you might not even know exist. Whether it’s academic support, career development or mental health services, there’s help available. Explore what your specific college provides as well.
Start here: https://undergrad.msu.edu/resources
